Expect Great Things?
"In the long run, we find what we expect. We shall be fortunate, then, if we expect great things.” -Thoreau "Expect gravel. Everything else is a happy surprise." -unknown. What's a man to expect in this dating scene we find ourselves in? How do we weigh what seems like good date of what's going on in the world against negativity bias? I have a friend here who insists that there are plenty of women in this part of the world, yet for three years I have been looking and having little luck. Many meet 3 of my 4 non-negociables, but over and over, all but one are checked off, and there's no about of manufacturing I can do to create an attraction to someone if it's not there. I dream (if only in day dreams) of potentially moving somewhere temporarily for a few months to find greener grass. Yet even my female cousins in cities as up and coming as Nashville or as heavily populated as New York are facing some very similar frustratio...
